Currently, the internet is still anonymous, and while I’m all for the safety aspects of anonymity, cowards use it to be bullies and trolls. Bullies are always weak, always insecure. That’s what makes them bullies: they target the things they don’t understand and don’t feel comfotable with in the vain hopes that belitting others will somehow make them feel better about themselves. Social networking allowds them to extend the old schoolyard bullying into cyberspace – and this week, that practice claimed another victim – Jamey Rodemeyer, an American teenager, bullied into taking his own life - for daring to be different (in this case, for being gay). A boy brave enough to use his own name on his blog, to be recognisable online, bullied to death by insecure little cowards. They hounded him on social networks, and undoubtedly made his life hell at school. The bombardment was 24-7. Putting aside the irony that social networks were invented by the kind of people who wouldn’t have been popular in high school, the trouble is exacerbated because these days, our online lives mean we have no respite from snide sniping from those who feel threatened by other people’s relative self-confidence. No wonder the targetted are losing all hope. No wonder these trolls, these clowns are taking full advantage of the chance to snipe and back-stab and bully from behind the wall of anonymity. Behind my key-board, I wish they could see my lip curl. Because really, the pack of you: grow up and grow some vertebrae.
And I wish I could say that it gets better after school, but it doesn’t. Bullying rife and inherent in office culture across the world. There are always the weak, hunting in packs, to tear down those strong enough to stand alone or be different. There always will be. And the irony is: they never see that it backfires. That which doesn’t kill us, makes us ever stronger.